You taught me to drive
on a 3-speed stick-shift V-8 pick-up, no less
You taught me to appreciate
coffee and early morning quiet
and the importance of trust
You taught me patience and kindness
All of these lessons that have shaped me
You’re still my super hero
the way a dad should be
You don’t have to save the world
you hang clotheslines
and your granddaughter’s swings
Your super power is always being there
whenever I’ve needed you
You left on your bike every morning
but came home for every dinner
You never missed a big event
or a small victory
Your consistency was a priceless gift
that only now I can fully appreciate
I know now what strength patience requires
I know now the inability of strong arms
to protect a little girls from scraped knees
How a heart can break in proxy
when she loses a much-loved pet
I know the uselessness of prayers
to protect from the ever-ticking hands of Father Time
When I hold my girls through their tears
I remember you holding me
in your lap in the pink rocker
so many times
I remember encouraging words
and listening ears
when I was in doubt
I try to be the parent you were
when I’m at the end of my rope
You are the person who taught me
what unconditional love and acceptance feel like
For every lesson, I am thankful